Do you love your mom?

Here is a very touchy subject that I want to talk about.

I hope that it comes out right.

It is about your relationship with your mom.

I have been thinking a lot about this the last few days and I was debating whether I should write about it or not.

Basically I believe to be good with women you have to be able to have a good relationship with your mom.

See I love my mom I even called her last night to tell her that I am going to write about this and she said that I should do it, so I am.

See you have met, you do meet and you will meet a lot of women in your life, but there is one that is for life.

If a woman blows you off you know you turn the corner and you can meet an other one.

But if you mom blows you of in anyway it gets right trough you, it gets straight to your hard and it hurts.

So if you read my post “Women want a man that can handle them” it is the same principal.

You have to know how to “handle” your mom and I do believe she will be the hardest one to “handle”.

What I mean by this is she is the hardest one because she knows you the best, and she loves you the most, she will love you more then any women you will ever meet.

So you cannot play games with her, with her you have to be real, and that is how you should be with any woman.

So when your mom is on your case or when she is mean to you, or when she is not being supportive, is because she wants to know that you love her.

She cannot ask “do you love me” and you don't have to even say it with words if you don't want.

Show it to her.

It took me a long time to understand all this.

See I left home when I was 17 and I came to USA (I am from Bulgaria). It is 8 years later I have seen very little of my mom.

Every time a call her she will be almost always telling me that I wasn't doing something right, and it hurt me so much because I am all alone in USA and I try hard and I would of love to had her support.

So we would fight a lot and it was a big mess.

So know that I understand women and life so much better, my relationship with her now is great.

Now I know that all she wanted is to know that I love her and that I miss her.

I call her more often now, I banter with her, I shear my fun times, I tell her how I pick up women, I share with her my successes and my pain.

She still try to tell me what to do and how to do it. I just let her speak, I let her finish, so she knows that I care what she thinks and then if I like it I will tell her so if not I will tell her so too and she loves me for it.

Is great, it feels great too. It feels good to have her support.

I will tell you what dough it is fucking hard to do all this, again because you cannot just leave her and go find an other mother.

If you know how to interact with your mom you will know how to interact with any woman.

So if you want to be better with women call your mom right now.

Tell her how much she means to you, tell her how much you love her, tell her what you have been up to, ask her what she thinks about it.

I guaranty you that if you can do this right you will be instantly a better man and women will be more attracted to you.

PS: by the way this is photo is of my mom and I from like 8-9 years ago when I was 16.
So cute

Women want a man that can handle them

When you talk to a women you want to approach her from a point of Fun and Curiosity.

Women want a man that can handle them!

I heard so many women tell me “He knows how to handle me” that is of course if they speak about a man that they like. Or my other favorite is “I love to be man handled”

What is that women mean when they say that?

For a women is wrong to ask for attention and I will not even mention sex.

Also women are emotional creatures and are very in-tune with there feelings and emotions.

They understand one other without words she does not need to tell her girlfriend that she is feeling bad today she knows it just by hearing her voice.

You have to base your interaction with a woman base on this two main factors about women.

What does a woman do when she wants your attention, or when she is feeling hurt, or when she is feeling lonely, or even when she is feeling fat?

She will start a fight with you for no reason, she will start blaming you for something that you are doing, or everything that you are doing, and of course you can never win.

Here comes the part where she wants you to know how to handle her.

Very key point here.

She hate herself for starting this fight, she knows it is pointless but what she hates even more is that you don't know that is pointless and that you try to look for reasons behind her action, then you start blaming her for going crazy, or even worst taking the responsibility of her going crazy.

She just wanted your attention that is all.

So give it to her don't fight with her.

Be the man she wants you to be.

All you need to do at this point look at her like she is your cute baby girl and don't take her seriously.

At moments like that is especially important to keep your cool and to approach her from a place of curiosity and fun.

Do not go into it, don't ignore her but don't take her seriously, have fun.

Most likely she just wanted to have sex.

So I would even go that far to say that the best way to deal with the situation is to throw her down and have sex with her right there and then.

God she will love you so much for it.

This is what she means by saying “He knows how to handle me”

Because women can not handle themselves when it comes to this little stupid games that they play so the need you to be the man that can help them win the game.

I love women, I adore them so I love this little games, I think they are very cute.

Here is an other key point.

Women play this games from the moment they meet you. From the very first second.

Keep this in mind next time you think you got blown off by a girl, may be she was just playing a game with you, may be she was just testing you to see if you can step up.

She wants to know if you can handle her from the very first second.

When you leave the first time she plays a game with you, then obviously you don't know how to handle her. Further more is that if you cannot handle her in a simple little test that she did, she will be thinking "how the hell are you going to handle me in the bedroom?".

PS: A little story to back my post:

I met a girl, the attraction was on.

We move to an other bar with few of my friends and her friend.

When we were in this other bar she started flirting with my friend in a very obvious way.

I loved seeing this because I knew exactly what she was doing, she was testing me.

I looked at her and I was thinking to myself “oh god you are so cute”

So after 5 or 10 min of that she realized that I don't give a fuck I was even happy for her that she is having fun. (felt little sorry for my friend because he tough he stole my girl, and she was just using him)

What you think happened next?

She came in and she throws herself at me and she tells me “you are so cool, you give me my space, and you let me be. You know how to handle me”

That was in about 2 hours after I met her.

You guess what happen next...

You fucking me makes me bilingual

OK guys here are the lyrics of a song that I believe best describe what a woman wants from a real man.

“The only aphrodisiac I need is your voice

Hearing you speak my name

Beckoning me to answer

Telling me you want me

So I tell you that you're the answer to every question I've ever had about love



Without words I use my tongue to tell the tale of us

Tracing your shadowscape

Kneeling before you my eyes feast upon your masculinity and

All its divinity and I praise you

Because all of that is for me



I begin to indulge myself of your delicacies

Digesting semi-sweet dark chocolate decadence as it melts

Dripping down my chin

Your taste is something that I ever couldn't re-create



Needing every atom of your anatomy

Necessity is placed upon me knowing you are the source of my serendipity

Dipping in and out of me stroking more than my consciousness

Subconsciously I find myself rewinding our love scenes

In my daydreams

Seeing that face you make when you're making me cum

And it makes me want you right there and then



Thinking of you in inappropriate places I get

Tingling sensations in private locations where I wish to be caught between a rock and your hard place



As wetness develops my legs begin to open and my spot turns to a backdraft and all I want you to do is extinguish it

You know my body like the back of your hands

And touch me and send me into ecstasy



My thighs quiver in anticipation of deep penetration which gets me high

Body rising

Sweating

Panting

Make-up melting

Pulling my hair and

Scratching my back

I get a temporary case of tourettes because all I can say are four letter words in a four octave-range screaming your name



[Spanish]



You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual



I see your tongue pink between your lips and I want it between mine

And I struggle

As you lick torturing me

I try to get away but

Not really



Running out of room begging for more up against the wall that has been scuffed by my stilletos

Again

You pry apart my thighs and tell me to be still

And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me

Demanding that I cum for you so I do as I'm told



You've molded me so I'm good to no-one else but you

You've conquered this once orgasmicless world and multiplied it

Again and

Again



My face radiates with after-glow

My pillow scented by you

A fragrance which haunts me

My room smells of the best sex

I

Covered in body prints and finger prints and you above me

Your name written indelibly upon my body in your genetic history



You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual

You fucking me makes me bilingual”

I hope you notice how she wants him to lead hear and the more he leads her, the more he is control the more she wants it.
“And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me
”

"THE TAO IS CALLING TO YOU TO LEAVE BEHIND YOUR SEROUS, GLOOMY, DARK, ISOLATED LIFE AND TO JOIN IN THE DANCE OF PURE BEING"
John Lash