Have You Ever Lost Your Power As a Man In a Relationship?

Have you ever felt like you are on top of the world? Having your life together going places meeting a beautiful woman falling in love and few months into the relationship you end up feeling small, insecure and needy?

Ask yourself if you or anyone you know has or had both of this: loving, passionate, steamy hot, relationship and also is living life from the depths of his integrity as a man fully living his purpose and mission in life?

Are you ready to have both? Well if you are call me and come to my workshop!

How can a man be as productive, as powerful, as focused, as grounded, as solid, in the midst of a passionate relationship as he can be when he has no women in his life?

When we do not have a feminine partner next to us, I notice that we put all our energy and focus on either enjoying the simple beauty of life, the little moments. Or we put all our energy and focus on giving our gifts to the world.

I personally know men that purposely stay away from women because they see them as a distraction from where they are headed in life. After all it takes a lot of energy to maintain a healthy relationship doesn’t it? And lets be totally honest with each other women are pain in the ass!

To make it even more complicated women are way more attracted to us when we are so clear and focused on our mission in life. As we experience ourselves being clear, solid, focused and women attracted to us soon we find ourselves in a relationship with most likely a phenomenal woman.

As soon as we experience some depth of intimacy with this phenomenal woman, we begin to feel weaker as a man. We start to lose clarity, focus, and solidness. As a result of that our phenomenal woman experiences less attraction towards us. As a result of her being less attracted we start to feel even less focused, clear and solid. Not only that but pretty soon we become needy. Somehow from being on top of the world having our shit together giving our gifts, hooking up with a phenomenal woman to finding ourselves in a vicious circle feeling insecure, uncertain, and needy.

What happened along the way?
Shouldn’t things now be even better then before, after all now we have a phenomenal woman next to us to support us and encourage us to be better men in the world?

How can we stay with our hearth fully open to the world and our woman, while we maintain strong solid power with which we can penetrate the world and our woman right open?

Have you ever noticed that for us men we can do one or the other but not both at the same time?

It is easy to penetrate our women strongly and powerfully at the beginning of a relationship because our heart is not been fully open to her yet. As the relationship deepens our hearts open bigger to her and the more open our heart is the less powerful as a man we feel. It is like we are fully disconnected from our power when we are around our woman.

Maybe even at times when you are out in the world away from your woman you experience some sense of power and in the back of your mind you are think “God I wish she was here to see this”. Unfortunately not only that she wasn’t there to see it but also the moment you see her you completely lose it again. The moment you see her your heart simply blooms open and you instantly get disconnected from your power.

What would it be to be able to fully love her, heart wide open, and violently f*cking her all at the same time. Your love so big that it actually hurts of how much you love her, and yet you are taking her, penetrating her deeper then she has ever been before. Open heart and a hard cock.

Friend of mine the other day told me “as soon as she became sacred to me I was not able to spit at her” and I thought to myself “well I do not think that she would like you to spit on her if you do not see her as sacred.”

How can a man have both at the same time?

Samurais and Native Americans practice this. The practice to kill your opponent with love. To hunt with love. To f*ck with love. As Deida likes to say “murder her open to God with your f*ck”

Where can you start your practice?

Well like with every practice first start to pay attention to when you are feeling your power and when you are not. Start to feel when your heart is wide open and if you are feeling love whether is towards a flower, nature or a woman and notice if you can feel your power as a man in that moment. Become present to how you lose your power as your heart opens. Become present to how your heart closes as you are in your power.

From the place of being aware of those changes you can start to have a bit more choice around it.

Take full responsibility for creating your life. Be accountable for what you are creating. Know that there is not such a thing as the perfect woman. Know that if you are power is not rotted in love no matter with what woman you are with you will lose your power when your heart opens and as a result she will lose attraction to you as man. If you are in your power but you are not loving her she will also get turned off by you, your power will disgust her.

Once you can feel your heart fully open and maintaining your power as man and you can walk down the street maintaining both you will have to power to do something about any woman that you desire.

I have only one question for you:
ARE YOU READY TO HAVE THAT?

If you are keep reading if not you can stop right here.

Call me at 415.531.2487 and sign up for my workshop.

In it, you will get:

• the very core basic foundation from which to interact with a woman so she is turn on by you
• secret technique to create instant trust with a woman
• simple eye contact method to have woman melting in your arms
• how to touch a woman in way which she can feel your sexual power
• how to speak to a woman so she can get what you are saying
• how to avoid getting stuck or blocked in any stage of your relationship

Contact me at 415.531.2487 for more info.

Real World Seduction

Hi,

How you been?

You have not heard from me in quite a while. I have been in search of myself. Also I a lot has happen in the last month all too much all too fast, all at the same time. At some moments was just a bit too much for my system. But I am glad to say that apparently the old saying “What does not kill you makes you stronger” which I have heard so many times from so many different people in the last month, it seems to be true.


I have spent this time mostly alone all though with the amazing love of my amazing friends all around me who were just a hand away at any time, and trust me I had to reach for it a lot. All thru out my life whenever I had a lot going on I would always keep myself extra busy with a million things like work, friends, parties, drinking, women and so on, just so I do not have to feel the pain. This time for the first time in my life I decide to just be with at all as it’s happening. I stayed home being with it all. I have to tell you it was one of the hardest things I had to do but I am glad I did it. I am much better man for it. I feel much more stable, balanced and grounded. I have learned so much about myself and about life as I was just looking within, spending time meditating and praying.


Now I am ready to go back and teach from a new place. A place that is new for me but it feels fucking great to be here, I wouldn’t want to be any other place but here. I am ready to teach from a place that is more open, more present, more real, more true. And if that is not enough all this time I have spent looking within I have had an amazing revolutions around women and especially seduction that I cannot wait to share with you in my workshop which by the way is next weekend July 11-13.


My workshop as we here at LVO3 named it is “Real Word Seduction”. Seduction is an art. Art that women have studied explored and perfect since the beginning of time and may be for the first time in the history men have to study it too. One of the most powerful things about my workshop is that I work with women that are very in touch with their feminine side and have great awareness. And not only that but they are willing to drop their guard down and to share with you about the their “games”.


See as I mention already women are master seducers and they love to play games and to throw you for a loop so the more you get suck into her games the worst it gets. You are playing a game that you are doom too lose simply because they are way better then you can ever be. So here is my tip for you and a little secret. Women play those games and secretly inside they are rooting for you they want you to win. But may be you are asking yourself already “but how can I win at a game that I do not even know how to play and even if I knew how can I win if they are the masters at it?” Well simple you do not have to win a game that you are not playing ;). I know it is a mind fuck and it is hard even for me to get my head around it. And of course there is a lot more to it then just this. So here is my tip. Drop your fucking games whether you come to my workshop or not fucking drop it. This is advice coming from a man that is a “Master Seducer”. Fuck man so many people have refer to me as Don Juan DeMarco. You know what fuck that…


I have always been surrounded with beautiful women and my ego was way over my head and it was controlling my fucking life. The moment I drop my ego and my games I had more women and better women around me then ever before and not only that but those women could relax around me and trusted me way more then I could ever thought I woman could trust a man in such a short time. And I do not know about you but there is nothing hotter for me then having a woman trust.


When a woman just looks at me completely relax being herself and says: “I love being here with you, I feel like I can fully relax and be myself with you. I usually do not feel that way with man.” I heard these words from a woman that was naked in my bed and I did nothing to seduce her. Well I do not know about you but when that happens to me my blood starts to boil and I feel so happy.


So at this point may be you are asking yourself again well how are you going to teach me about seduction when you are telling me to drop my games?


Well good question I like it. Well here is a question for you?


Have you ever studied any martial art? Or have you ever read about it or heard about it?


Well most of this martial art could be used to kill someone with it right? But they say that if you are master at martial art you never have to use it. I know a man that has studied and taught martial art for 30 years now and as far as he has told me he has needed to use it in real life only twice. Well we can explore this example in great depth and I will let you explore that for yourself and see how you can tie this concept back to seduction.


Well so I am not so coy I will add more to it. You know every little girl dreams about prince charming and to be slept of their feet right? Well there is seduction and there is seduction. There is a way to be with a woman that is fully there, fully present taking here ever so deeply, seen her bigger and deeper than she can even see herself, opening her with just one look, loving her ever so fully, holding her ever so closely, looking at her ever so openly, touching her ever so gently. It is not just her face, her figure, or her voice. Look into her eyes and find what is behind them, find her spirit and let it be free. Allow her to be herself with you. Feel her softness and warmness and feel how it brings tears to your eyes. Fell how she smells like angels ought to smell.

Well there is all that and there is playing games.


So if you are interested in still playing games well I am sorry but my workshop is not for you. If you are ready to drop your shit and be a real man. Man that is present, open, loving and giving. Man that makes a difference in the world. Man that lives a full and rich life. Well if you are ready to be that man then you definitely need to be in my workshop next weekend.

Go on there and see what Sean Messenger experience was in my workshop and sign up.


If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer them personally. Feel free to email me at Hristiyan@me.com or feel free to call me 415.531.2487


Love and Light on your way!

-Hristiyan

Sean Messenger Experience From Hristiyan Workshop

You may know me. I'm one of the 25 best Pickup Artists in the World, apparently. But I have to confess something: I am NOTHING compared to Hristiyan. See, I've been in this game for a while. I started hanging with "naturals" when I was 12, and kept learning that way till I was 30, when I discovered DYD. Since then, I've worked with and made friends with the very best teachers and ladies men in the community. I know everyone, and everything. But I never felt the need to let someone ELSE teach me (even in the one class I did take, I ended up doing more teaching than learning).

That all changed the weekend that I decided to take Hristiyan's Innergame and Daygame Bootcamp. Hristiyan is not only my friend and my co-worker at LVO3, he's also, in a lot of ways, a mentor to me. As long as I've known him, I've marvelled at his ability to walk into a room, any room, and magnetcially draw the finest women to him with what looks like no effort. Now, I'm good at this stuff. DAMN good. But for me it's always work. I'm always putting something in. And what he did was so effortless, and it worked everywhere, on everyone. To be honest, I knew that I had to drop my ego and let him teach me, or we woudn't be able to hang out as buds anymore cos he'd keep stealing all the girls. :)

So I did it.

I wish I could tell you in full what the whole weekend was like, but there's one moment that I feel sums it up. See, me and just a small group of students spent 2 full days getting pushed and prodded and opened up and rebuilt by Hristiyan and his coaches. They found every weakness we had been hiding, pulled it out and replaced it with strength. They found why we didn't feel confident and put us through real exercises (not lectures) that built our confidence and kept it building. They pushed our limits of how great we thought we could be... and then it was time to test it with the single most challenging exercise I've ever done.

Hristiyan put his beautiful female assistant on the couch. He turned to me, and gave me a very simple directive.

"Walk over to her, sit down, and seduce her without words. No talking. You breathe, move, look, and feel the seduction."

As soon as he said this to me, I was scared and nervous as F*&^. How the hell was I supposed to do that? Then he whispered something to me, and it was like a light opening up in the clouds. I instantly understood what it was he did everytime he went out and women flocked to him like puppies who hear the word "cookie." He never needed to say anything, becuase every single move, breath, and look he sent out communicated seduction stronger than words ever could. And he had been teaching us this all weekend in all the exercises we'd done on breathing, and holding sensual eye contact, creating eye contact, and especially on touching women like a lover.

What he taught us was so simple, but so damn hard to get to... until we did the work. He taught us how to look at a woman as a lover from the very first second. And the trick to that is... if you look at her as a Lover, she looks at YOU as a Lover. No need for "escalation," or "sexually charged conversation." I looked at this beautiful woman on the couch across from me (who I'd wanted to seduce from the first moment she came into the class, but was scared, cos she was just too hot, too sexy, too out of my league), and realized that for the first time I could drop all my bullshit, all my tricks, all the pickup crap stuffed in my brain that had gotten me the success that only left me feeling like a fraud, and even more, drop all the insecurity I'd carried around since I was a geeky, skinny, nerdy teenager who couldn't get a date and couldn't figure out why it was so easy for everyone else. I dropped it all, because Hristiyan taught me the exact steps on how to really BE with a woman completely so she knows that you are the Lover she's been looking for.

I sat down. I smiled just a bit, and simply looked at her. I looked at her from the first second like i would look at a Lover in my sheets, laying back calm, sweat drying in the cool air, our breath merging as it slows. I didn't have to fake anything, and I didn't have to say anything. I could see her in my arms, taste her lips on mine, and the pure pleasure of that feeling was lighting me up and radiating to her. She got a little uncomfortable. "Aren't you going to say anything?" she asked. I nodded no, and kept looking. I breathed, deeper, slower. And I noticed she started to breathe slower and deeper with me, like magic. She kept asking questions, but they got fewer and fewer. She had started at the beginning trying to break her eyes away, but as I stayed there, her eyes stayed right with me. We had no words, and communicated far deeper and sexier than I ever could by talking. Finally, I reached over to her, slowly, slowly. I looked down for a second, then looked back up as I gently took her hand in mine. She twined her fingers around mine, and in that moment the entire world disappeared. Everyting went black and silent but for me and her in this moment, and I could feel the sexual energy pulsing from my body, into hers, and back again in a circuit. Our eyes locked and it seemed our bodies started to draw in closer like magnets, closer... closer... closer....

"OK, I think that's good for now!" Hristiyan said, and put his hands on my shoulders to pull me back gently. There was a big smile on his face. I looked around the room, and there was nothing but stunned looks and smiles on the faces of everyone, the students, the coaches, the other female assistant. They all felt it, and honestly, everyone looked pretty disappointed that they didn't get to see the kiss. I looked at the girl I had been with, and she looked pretty damn disappointed too. :)

It was like a movie. Straight up Clooney shit. And that's what I got from working with Hristiyan and his gift of teaching. Every moment with a woman, from the first second you see her through your first words, to the first kiss, till you lay her in your bed and take her to ecstacy, every moment is like a movie for her when you know what to do. You create the seduction and the sexual tension not with lines or routines or the other stuff that only gets in the way, but with everything that comes from inside. You build it with an expert who shows you how, and then it's yours forever.

When he took us out that day, I counted more women staring at me, on the street, in the stores, hell, even on the train, than ever before. I didn't have to say anything to them. I didn't have to prove how sexy I was, because thanks to Hristiyan, I was showing it every moment.

If you've seen my latest "hidden cam" video and wondered just how the hell I transformed from a dancing monkey (a good one), to a man who is just totally calm, confident, and sexual with women without seeming to even try, well, this is your answer. I learned it from Hristiyan. Take a look.

I know what you are thinking. I work with Hristiyan. He's part of my company. I coach with him at our events, and if I say good things about him, that's good for me and for business. If I say he's the best, it's good for me. And you've got a point.

But it's still the Truth.

There's a reason Hristiyan is the ONLY man I brought with me into my new company out of all the amazing teachers I know. I've worked with the very best of the best in this business. I know everybody, and have a lot of respect for their brilliance. But in my experience, no one, NO ONE is even close to Hristiyan's level. He is the best teacher, hands down, for any man, any level, any experience, who loves women and wants more choice, happiness, and fun with women in his life. If you like girls, don't waste another second. Let Hristiyan show you how to become the man that girls love.
- Sean Messenger, former Head Coach at PickUp 101,
star of DYD "Interviews with Dating Gurus," co-founder of LVO3

I am a dreamer but I am not the only one

I dream for a better, happier world where people just get along... and yes, I am a fool, but I cannot help it. I have to follow my heart.

I go about my day and I see people that are not happy. I see people that settle with what they have, from their jobs to the people in their lives, and it hurts me.

I want to see people with their heads up and a smile on.

I see people afraid to go after what they want because they're afraid to lose what they already have, even if they are not happy with it.

I see people afraid of going after what they want because they might actually get it, and that scares them.

I see people afraid to surrender themselves to their hearts because they are afraid that they might get hurt.

Basically, I see people living in fear.

I am afraid too. I am scared like a little boy, but that is why I know I have to keep going and keep trying and to see what life has in store for me.

I have to know that at least I tried.



“If I have even just a little sense, I will walk on the main road and my only fear will be of straying from it.” Lao Tzu



I will tell you that a lot of times I get scared and I want to run like a little boy back to mommy.

Other times, I feel very lonely because very few people support you when you go after what your heart wants, instead of going after what is safe or what society expects of you.

I have lost a lot of friends along the way, but I have also found out who my real friends are, friends who I know will be there no matter what.

Many times I have asked myself the question, "Am I doing the right thing?"

I will tell you, your heart always knows the truth.

I will be the first to admit that I haven't always followed my heart, but time has showed me that it was always right.

So I am a dreamer and I dream of helping people walk with their heads up and with a smile on.

I go around and I teach men how to understand women better and I like to think that I am helping them, but who am I to tell you how things are? I am only human.

I only know what I have seen. Maybe you know more than I, but that is why I am more fortunate than most of you, because I go and teach 10 people at a time and I learn from all of them.

I grow every time I teach.

The funny thing is that the more I learn, the more I see that I do not know anything.

I think Socrates once told his student, "You know more than I because the more you know, the longer it will take you to realize that you do not know anything, and since I know more than you, it will take me longer to realize that I do not know anything."

I think it was something like that, but I am not sure. I know that these were not his exact words, so I will try to search for it online and see what I can find.

“When Socrates asked the Delphic oracle who was the wisest of men, the oracle replied that it was Socrates himself. Socrates was shocked to hear it. “Who, me?” he wondered. “I don’t know anything.” But as he contemplated the oracle’s answer, Socrates realized the oracle was right. Socrates indeed was wiser than other men. At least he knew he was ignorant; the others were ignorant and didn’t know it. As long as they were ignorant of their ignorance, they could never change it.”

by Michael Bauman

I have a long way to go until I realize that.

So for now, I hope that I am changing people's lives for the better. I dream of reaching everyone that wants to be helped and I hope to learn and grow with them.

I dream of changing the world and I am sure that I am not the only one. Maybe one day I will realize that I do not know anything and I will just get lost in the void of the universe...

The Three Steps Of Having Women Come To You

How can you get to be so good with women that you do not have to ever go out and pick up women?

I hate the word "pick-up". I hate the fact that I have to go out with the pure purpose to run after women.

Real men do not go out of their way to meet women.

Real men are focused on their life purpose and whenever they meet a woman on their life path, they bring her along for the ride of her life.

I know many of you are reading this and are thinking "Yes, this sounds very poetic and all (by the way, people tend to believe things that are poetic) but HOW THE FUCK DO I DO IT".

I will break it down for you.

First, and most importantly: You Have To Believe That You Are Worthy of Everything You Desire, Dream Of, and Want.

I have a lot of friends that say, “I would love to have a Porsche”, but most of them do not feel that they are worthy of having one. For them, it is not even a dream, but more like a fantasy.

I also have friends that do own a Porsche and for them, it was always just a matter of time before they got one. It was never a question of whether they would have one or not. It was more like, “Ah ya, Porsche. No biggie. I will get mine.”

When it comes to women, you have to feel the same way. You have to know in your body that you are worthy of having the women that you desire.

The Second Step: Get In Touch With Your Purpose.

We are all here for a reason.

What is the reason that you are here? Why do you wake up in the morning?

“Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. Just this self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority.”
David Deida

When you approach life in that manner, you are a real man.

I have asked a lot of women (and I mean women, not girls), "So what kind of man do you like?"

Most of the time, I have gotten the response “I want a MAN.” Or if they want to be sweet, they will say, “I want a MANLY man.”

Women want to know that you are focused on your life and that you go after what you want and that she cannot move you from your life path. Believe me, she will try to do so, just to see if you are man enough to stay on your life path. If you get off your path because of her, she will lose her attraction for you.

Step Three: Learn About Women.

Learn why they are so beautiful and why they make the world a better, happier place with their beauty.

Understand women on a deeper level, appreciate women on a deeper level.

See the beauty in her and then bring it out of her and cherish it, and she will melt in your hands.

So how do you do that?

The best way for you would be to get your ass in one of the workshops that I lead.

Second, maybe you can convince me to give you some coaching.

Go out there, read books, practice.

Learn from those around you who are better than you.

But no matter what you decide to do, and I know you will do something to become better men because you are already here reading this,

BE AWARE, BE PRESENT.

You can learn from every interaction you have with every woman, if you are there, present, and aware of what is going on.

These are the 3 steps to have women just come into your life without you having to go out to “pick them up”.

Once you master them, when you go out to have a drink with your buddy, I promise you that an amazing woman will appear out of nowhere, and she will get lost in your eyes, and all you will have to do is reach your arm out and say, “Let's get out of here.”

Crazy, you think. I say magical.

How could that possibly happen, you might ask?

When you are that kind of man, she will be able to see you from a mile away and she will gravitate to you.

When you are that kind of man, you will see her half a mile away (a woman will always be more aware, so she will see you first) and you will gravitate to her and, like I said, all you need to do is reach out and lead her.

Check my Podcast on Foreplay it will give you better understanding on how to have more women in your life

"Foreplay: Advanced Techniques"

"Foreplay: The Basics"

How to escalate the interaction

Lately, my friends and I have been talking a lot about "Sexual Escalation", so I want to talk about that too and hopefully help you guys have a better understanding of it.

I feel like a lot of people understand sexual escalation as literally, "being sexual by what you are saying, and by doing a lot of kino."

Yes, it is very important what you say and, of course, how you say it. And yes, kino is important, but...

What I am saying is that if you like a girl, you should be sexual with her 24/7 from the very first second.

Here comes the key point that many men miss. You have to be in control of your sexuality, and you have to be in control of your sexual needs and desires.

You are in control of your sexuality; sexuality is not in control of your life.
You are in control of your emotions; you don't let your emotions control your life.

That drives women crazy.

So how do you escalate?

You show her all the time that you are very sexual and a sensitive being, but for her to get a taste of it, she needs to earn it.

Look at her in a seductive, sexual way. Be very comfortable with it, but don't even touch her.

It is very important that you hold the tension and that you don't smile. If she smiles, you keep that seductive look and show her that you are seriously thinking of her in a sexual way.

She will be like, “Why is he being so sexual but not doing anything about it?”

You are not doing anything because you are in control of yourself, and she will want to break that because she is not used to seeing a man like that. That, right there, is going to make her get closer to you and be sexual with you back.

If she is a very confident woman (the one that you want to be with, anyway) she will not try to break it. She will just feel comfortable around you so she can allow herself to be herself with you and to be sexual with you, too.

You want to have sex. You love to have sex, but you understand that sex is something very beautiful, intimate, and sacred.

For you, sex is not just sticking it inside of an object.

You understand that sex is about two people getting together to enjoy the beauty of each other, and sex is the way they celebrate the joy of each other.

So even though you want to have sex, you want to find someone that is worth your time, someone that is worthy of sharing that beauty with you.

Someone that is up to your standards!

So you are not going “all the way” because you are looking for the beauty inside of her. You might find it, you might not. No, until you find something that is special about her, you will not give her any more than a friendly hug. It goes back to the post, ”it is all about her”.

I don't want to make things dramatic, you can find a lot of things that you like in a woman in a matter of seconds, but for you to go all the way, you need more than that.

Then let's say you are very close to her physically. You have your arm around her because you found something special about her.

Then you can get very close to her lips and tell her “I really want to kiss you right now, you are so sexy and beautiful but I need to get to know you better first and I am not sure if you are ready for it.” Of course, you do not kiss her.

Again, that shows that you are in control of yourself and you will not let your emotions control your life, the same way you don't punch every person in the face that makes you angry.

Here comes a part that is hard to explain. You tell her, “I am not sure if you are ready for it”, only if she is really not ready for it.

What do I mean by this?

You don't want her to just open her legs for you, she might be ready for that.
You want her to cum for you like she has for no one else because that is what makes you feel like a man.

Is there anything more rewarding in life than for a man to elicit powerful desires, passions and responsiveness from a woman? If there is, I don't know of it.

For a woman to share her orgasm with you, she must trust you. If she does not trust you, she is not yet ready for your kiss.

If she is ready and you tell her, then you will blow it.

When I say I don't want her to just open her legs for me, I mean if she will not allow herself to have an orgasm, then how is that fun for me?

Sex is a dance that takes two people. If only one is dancing, or one is only in it half ass, what is the fun in that?

So this is how you escalate: by being in control of the interaction.

I see men approach and approach women, and the first one that opens to them is the one they go for.

This is not being in control.

Women are so used to controlling the interaction and that is so boring to them. They hate that.

If a woman gets horny, she knows that all she needs to do is put some sexy outfit on, go to the first bar she sees, and she will get what she wants because she knows men are not in control.

So when you show her that you are in control, it will drive her crazy and it will make her want you more.

The more she sees that you are in control, the more she will want you.

You could be very sexual, and you could be doing a lot of kino, and talk a lot about sex. Or you could just be sexual by simply looking at her in “that” way. You are not drooling all over her like you have never seen a woman before.

There is a lot to talk about, but I hope this will give you an idea of what it truly means to escalate, and if you do want to know more about how to escalate the interaction go get my Foreplay Podcasts right now:

"Foreplay: Advanced Techniques"

"Foreplay: The Basics"

LET ME SAY IT AGAIN. YOU ARE MAKING HER WANT YOU MORE AND MORE AND MORE (ESCALATING) BY BEING IN CONTROL OF YOURSELF AND OF THE INTERACTION.

"300"

So I just want to say thank you so much to all the great responses that I got after I posted “It is all about her”.

You guys really made me happy saying all the things you had to say you inspire me to keep going.

So I just saw “300”

I really like it since I saw it in the I-max I really got to experience it.

What I want to say is that this film is all about real man.

Men that know what they want, men that have real passion about life, man that believe in something and are ready to die for it, men that are not scared to go after what they want.

I know that this film is an extreme example but that is what women are attractive to, man that has a “back bone”.

If you want women to like you find your passion in life, find what is it that you want so badly that you are ready to die for it and go after it.

When you do that women will run after you.

Be the man that she has fantasy's about since she was a little girl.

I know I am being extreme here but the idea is that if you get half of what I am trying to say it will be so powerful for you.

Keep your cool when things get hot, don't be scared to be vulnerable in front of her, don't be scared to ask her for advice.

Respect yourself and respect her, treat her as equal (not more like a lot of "nice guys" do and not less like a lot of "bad boys" do)

So this film make me think about all this things so I wanted to share them with all of you.

PS: Same feeling I get from “Sin City”