Sunday, July 6, 2008

Real World Seduction


How you been?

You have not heard from me in quite a while. I have been in search of myself. Also I a lot has happen in the last month all too much all too fast, all at the same time. At some moments was just a bit too much for my system. But I am glad to say that apparently the old saying “What does not kill you makes you stronger” which I have heard so many times from so many different people in the last month, it seems to be true.

I have spent this time mostly alone all though with the amazing love of my amazing friends all around me who were just a hand away at any time, and trust me I had to reach for it a lot. All thru out my life whenever I had a lot going on I would always keep myself extra busy with a million things like work, friends, parties, drinking, women and so on, just so I do not have to feel the pain. This time for the first time in my life I decide to just be with at all as it’s happening. I stayed home being with it all. I have to tell you it was one of the hardest things I had to do but I am glad I did it. I am much better man for it. I feel much more stable, balanced and grounded. I have learned so much about myself and about life as I was just looking within, spending time meditating and praying.

Now I am ready to go back and teach from a new place. A place that is new for me but it feels fucking great to be here, I wouldn’t want to be any other place but here. I am ready to teach from a place that is more open, more present, more real, more true. And if that is not enough all this time I have spent looking within I have had an amazing revolutions around women and especially seduction that I cannot wait to share with you in my workshop which by the way is next weekend July 11-13.

My workshop as we here at LVO3 named it is “Real Word Seduction”. Seduction is an art. Art that women have studied explored and perfect since the beginning of time and may be for the first time in the history men have to study it too. One of the most powerful things about my workshop is that I work with women that are very in touch with their feminine side and have great awareness. And not only that but they are willing to drop their guard down and to share with you about the their “games”.

See as I mention already women are master seducers and they love to play games and to throw you for a loop so the more you get suck into her games the worst it gets. You are playing a game that you are doom too lose simply because they are way better then you can ever be. So here is my tip for you and a little secret. Women play those games and secretly inside they are rooting for you they want you to win. But may be you are asking yourself already “but how can I win at a game that I do not even know how to play and even if I knew how can I win if they are the masters at it?” Well simple you do not have to win a game that you are not playing ;). I know it is a mind fuck and it is hard even for me to get my head around it. And of course there is a lot more to it then just this. So here is my tip. Drop your fucking games whether you come to my workshop or not fucking drop it. This is advice coming from a man that is a “Master Seducer”. Fuck man so many people have refer to me as Don Juan DeMarco. You know what fuck that…

I have always been surrounded with beautiful women and my ego was way over my head and it was controlling my fucking life. The moment I drop my ego and my games I had more women and better women around me then ever before and not only that but those women could relax around me and trusted me way more then I could ever thought I woman could trust a man in such a short time. And I do not know about you but there is nothing hotter for me then having a woman trust.

When a woman just looks at me completely relax being herself and says: “I love being here with you, I feel like I can fully relax and be myself with you. I usually do not feel that way with man.” I heard these words from a woman that was naked in my bed and I did nothing to seduce her. Well I do not know about you but when that happens to me my blood starts to boil and I feel so happy.

So at this point may be you are asking yourself again well how are you going to teach me about seduction when you are telling me to drop my games?

Well good question I like it. Well here is a question for you?

Have you ever studied any martial art? Or have you ever read about it or heard about it?

Well most of this martial art could be used to kill someone with it right? But they say that if you are master at martial art you never have to use it. I know a man that has studied and taught martial art for 30 years now and as far as he has told me he has needed to use it in real life only twice. Well we can explore this example in great depth and I will let you explore that for yourself and see how you can tie this concept back to seduction.

Well so I am not so coy I will add more to it. You know every little girl dreams about prince charming and to be slept of their feet right? Well there is seduction and there is seduction. There is a way to be with a woman that is fully there, fully present taking here ever so deeply, seen her bigger and deeper than she can even see herself, opening her with just one look, loving her ever so fully, holding her ever so closely, looking at her ever so openly, touching her ever so gently. It is not just her face, her figure, or her voice. Look into her eyes and find what is behind them, find her spirit and let it be free. Allow her to be herself with you. Feel her softness and warmness and feel how it brings tears to your eyes. Fell how she smells like angels ought to smell.

Well there is all that and there is playing games.

So if you are interested in still playing games well I am sorry but my workshop is not for you. If you are ready to drop your shit and be a real man. Man that is present, open, loving and giving. Man that makes a difference in the world. Man that lives a full and rich life. Well if you are ready to be that man then you definitely need to be in my workshop next weekend.

Go on there and see what Sean Messenger experience was in my workshop and sign up.

If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer them personally. Feel free to email me at or feel free to call me 415.531.2487

Love and Light on your way!


Sean Messenger Experience From Hristiyan Workshop

You may know me. I'm one of the 25 best Pickup Artists in the World, apparently. But I have to confess something: I am NOTHING compared to Hristiyan. See, I've been in this game for a while. I started hanging with "naturals" when I was 12, and kept learning that way till I was 30, when I discovered DYD. Since then, I've worked with and made friends with the very best teachers and ladies men in the community. I know everyone, and everything. But I never felt the need to let someone ELSE teach me (even in the one class I did take, I ended up doing more teaching than learning).

That all changed the weekend that I decided to take Hristiyan's Innergame and Daygame Bootcamp. Hristiyan is not only my friend and my co-worker at LVO3, he's also, in a lot of ways, a mentor to me. As long as I've known him, I've marvelled at his ability to walk into a room, any room, and magnetcially draw the finest women to him with what looks like no effort. Now, I'm good at this stuff. DAMN good. But for me it's always work. I'm always putting something in. And what he did was so effortless, and it worked everywhere, on everyone. To be honest, I knew that I had to drop my ego and let him teach me, or we woudn't be able to hang out as buds anymore cos he'd keep stealing all the girls. :)

So I did it.

I wish I could tell you in full what the whole weekend was like, but there's one moment that I feel sums it up. See, me and just a small group of students spent 2 full days getting pushed and prodded and opened up and rebuilt by Hristiyan and his coaches. They found every weakness we had been hiding, pulled it out and replaced it with strength. They found why we didn't feel confident and put us through real exercises (not lectures) that built our confidence and kept it building. They pushed our limits of how great we thought we could be... and then it was time to test it with the single most challenging exercise I've ever done.

Hristiyan put his beautiful female assistant on the couch. He turned to me, and gave me a very simple directive.

"Walk over to her, sit down, and seduce her without words. No talking. You breathe, move, look, and feel the seduction."

As soon as he said this to me, I was scared and nervous as F*&^. How the hell was I supposed to do that? Then he whispered something to me, and it was like a light opening up in the clouds. I instantly understood what it was he did everytime he went out and women flocked to him like puppies who hear the word "cookie." He never needed to say anything, becuase every single move, breath, and look he sent out communicated seduction stronger than words ever could. And he had been teaching us this all weekend in all the exercises we'd done on breathing, and holding sensual eye contact, creating eye contact, and especially on touching women like a lover.

What he taught us was so simple, but so damn hard to get to... until we did the work. He taught us how to look at a woman as a lover from the very first second. And the trick to that is... if you look at her as a Lover, she looks at YOU as a Lover. No need for "escalation," or "sexually charged conversation." I looked at this beautiful woman on the couch across from me (who I'd wanted to seduce from the first moment she came into the class, but was scared, cos she was just too hot, too sexy, too out of my league), and realized that for the first time I could drop all my bullshit, all my tricks, all the pickup crap stuffed in my brain that had gotten me the success that only left me feeling like a fraud, and even more, drop all the insecurity I'd carried around since I was a geeky, skinny, nerdy teenager who couldn't get a date and couldn't figure out why it was so easy for everyone else. I dropped it all, because Hristiyan taught me the exact steps on how to really BE with a woman completely so she knows that you are the Lover she's been looking for.

I sat down. I smiled just a bit, and simply looked at her. I looked at her from the first second like i would look at a Lover in my sheets, laying back calm, sweat drying in the cool air, our breath merging as it slows. I didn't have to fake anything, and I didn't have to say anything. I could see her in my arms, taste her lips on mine, and the pure pleasure of that feeling was lighting me up and radiating to her. She got a little uncomfortable. "Aren't you going to say anything?" she asked. I nodded no, and kept looking. I breathed, deeper, slower. And I noticed she started to breathe slower and deeper with me, like magic. She kept asking questions, but they got fewer and fewer. She had started at the beginning trying to break her eyes away, but as I stayed there, her eyes stayed right with me. We had no words, and communicated far deeper and sexier than I ever could by talking. Finally, I reached over to her, slowly, slowly. I looked down for a second, then looked back up as I gently took her hand in mine. She twined her fingers around mine, and in that moment the entire world disappeared. Everyting went black and silent but for me and her in this moment, and I could feel the sexual energy pulsing from my body, into hers, and back again in a circuit. Our eyes locked and it seemed our bodies started to draw in closer like magnets, closer... closer... closer....

"OK, I think that's good for now!" Hristiyan said, and put his hands on my shoulders to pull me back gently. There was a big smile on his face. I looked around the room, and there was nothing but stunned looks and smiles on the faces of everyone, the students, the coaches, the other female assistant. They all felt it, and honestly, everyone looked pretty disappointed that they didn't get to see the kiss. I looked at the girl I had been with, and she looked pretty damn disappointed too. :)

It was like a movie. Straight up Clooney shit. And that's what I got from working with Hristiyan and his gift of teaching. Every moment with a woman, from the first second you see her through your first words, to the first kiss, till you lay her in your bed and take her to ecstacy, every moment is like a movie for her when you know what to do. You create the seduction and the sexual tension not with lines or routines or the other stuff that only gets in the way, but with everything that comes from inside. You build it with an expert who shows you how, and then it's yours forever.

When he took us out that day, I counted more women staring at me, on the street, in the stores, hell, even on the train, than ever before. I didn't have to say anything to them. I didn't have to prove how sexy I was, because thanks to Hristiyan, I was showing it every moment.

If you've seen my latest "hidden cam" video and wondered just how the hell I transformed from a dancing monkey (a good one), to a man who is just totally calm, confident, and sexual with women without seeming to even try, well, this is your answer. I learned it from Hristiyan. Take a look.

I know what you are thinking. I work with Hristiyan. He's part of my company. I coach with him at our events, and if I say good things about him, that's good for me and for business. If I say he's the best, it's good for me. And you've got a point.

But it's still the Truth.

There's a reason Hristiyan is the ONLY man I brought with me into my new company out of all the amazing teachers I know. I've worked with the very best of the best in this business. I know everybody, and have a lot of respect for their brilliance. But in my experience, no one, NO ONE is even close to Hristiyan's level. He is the best teacher, hands down, for any man, any level, any experience, who loves women and wants more choice, happiness, and fun with women in his life. If you like girls, don't waste another second. Let Hristiyan show you how to become the man that girls love.
- Sean Messenger, former Head Coach at PickUp 101,
star of DYD "Interviews with Dating Gurus," co-founder of LVO3