Friday, July 13, 2007

I am a dreamer but I am not the only one

I dream for a better, happier world where people just get along... and yes, I am a fool, but I cannot help it. I have to follow my heart.

I go about my day and I see people that are not happy. I see people that settle with what they have, from their jobs to the people in their lives, and it hurts me.

I want to see people with their heads up and a smile on.

I see people afraid to go after what they want because they're afraid to lose what they already have, even if they are not happy with it.

I see people afraid of going after what they want because they might actually get it, and that scares them.

I see people afraid to surrender themselves to their hearts because they are afraid that they might get hurt.

Basically, I see people living in fear.

I am afraid too. I am scared like a little boy, but that is why I know I have to keep going and keep trying and to see what life has in store for me.

I have to know that at least I tried.

“If I have even just a little sense, I will walk on the main road and my only fear will be of straying from it.” Lao Tzu

I will tell you that a lot of times I get scared and I want to run like a little boy back to mommy.

Other times, I feel very lonely because very few people support you when you go after what your heart wants, instead of going after what is safe or what society expects of you.

I have lost a lot of friends along the way, but I have also found out who my real friends are, friends who I know will be there no matter what.

Many times I have asked myself the question, "Am I doing the right thing?"

I will tell you, your heart always knows the truth.

I will be the first to admit that I haven't always followed my heart, but time has showed me that it was always right.

So I am a dreamer and I dream of helping people walk with their heads up and with a smile on.

I go around and I teach men how to understand women better and I like to think that I am helping them, but who am I to tell you how things are? I am only human.

I only know what I have seen. Maybe you know more than I, but that is why I am more fortunate than most of you, because I go and teach 10 people at a time and I learn from all of them.

I grow every time I teach.

The funny thing is that the more I learn, the more I see that I do not know anything.

I think Socrates once told his student, "You know more than I because the more you know, the longer it will take you to realize that you do not know anything, and since I know more than you, it will take me longer to realize that I do not know anything."

I think it was something like that, but I am not sure. I know that these were not his exact words, so I will try to search for it online and see what I can find.

“When Socrates asked the Delphic oracle who was the wisest of men, the oracle replied that it was Socrates himself. Socrates was shocked to hear it. “Who, me?” he wondered. “I don’t know anything.” But as he contemplated the oracle’s answer, Socrates realized the oracle was right. Socrates indeed was wiser than other men. At least he knew he was ignorant; the others were ignorant and didn’t know it. As long as they were ignorant of their ignorance, they could never change it.”

by Michael Bauman

I have a long way to go until I realize that.

So for now, I hope that I am changing people's lives for the better. I dream of reaching everyone that wants to be helped and I hope to learn and grow with them.

I dream of changing the world and I am sure that I am not the only one. Maybe one day I will realize that I do not know anything and I will just get lost in the void of the universe...

Friday, July 6, 2007

The Three Steps Of Having Women Come To You

How can you get to be so good with women that you do not have to ever go out and pick up women?

I hate the word "pick-up". I hate the fact that I have to go out with the pure purpose to run after women.

Real men do not go out of their way to meet women.

Real men are focused on their life purpose and whenever they meet a woman on their life path, they bring her along for the ride of her life.

I know many of you are reading this and are thinking "Yes, this sounds very poetic and all (by the way, people tend to believe things that are poetic) but HOW THE FUCK DO I DO IT".

I will break it down for you.

First, and most importantly: You Have To Believe That You Are Worthy of Everything You Desire, Dream Of, and Want.

I have a lot of friends that say, “I would love to have a Porsche”, but most of them do not feel that they are worthy of having one. For them, it is not even a dream, but more like a fantasy.

I also have friends that do own a Porsche and for them, it was always just a matter of time before they got one. It was never a question of whether they would have one or not. It was more like, “Ah ya, Porsche. No biggie. I will get mine.”

When it comes to women, you have to feel the same way. You have to know in your body that you are worthy of having the women that you desire.

The Second Step: Get In Touch With Your Purpose.

We are all here for a reason.

What is the reason that you are here? Why do you wake up in the morning?

“Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. Just this self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority.”
David Deida

When you approach life in that manner, you are a real man.

I have asked a lot of women (and I mean women, not girls), "So what kind of man do you like?"

Most of the time, I have gotten the response “I want a MAN.” Or if they want to be sweet, they will say, “I want a MANLY man.”

Women want to know that you are focused on your life and that you go after what you want and that she cannot move you from your life path. Believe me, she will try to do so, just to see if you are man enough to stay on your life path. If you get off your path because of her, she will lose her attraction for you.

Step Three: Learn About Women.

Learn why they are so beautiful and why they make the world a better, happier place with their beauty.

Understand women on a deeper level, appreciate women on a deeper level.

See the beauty in her and then bring it out of her and cherish it, and she will melt in your hands.

So how do you do that?

The best way for you would be to get your ass in one of the workshops that I lead.

Second, maybe you can convince me to give you some coaching.

Go out there, read books, practice.

Learn from those around you who are better than you.

But no matter what you decide to do, and I know you will do something to become better men because you are already here reading this,


You can learn from every interaction you have with every woman, if you are there, present, and aware of what is going on.

These are the 3 steps to have women just come into your life without you having to go out to “pick them up”.

Once you master them, when you go out to have a drink with your buddy, I promise you that an amazing woman will appear out of nowhere, and she will get lost in your eyes, and all you will have to do is reach your arm out and say, “Let's get out of here.”

Crazy, you think. I say magical.

How could that possibly happen, you might ask?

When you are that kind of man, she will be able to see you from a mile away and she will gravitate to you.

When you are that kind of man, you will see her half a mile away (a woman will always be more aware, so she will see you first) and you will gravitate to her and, like I said, all you need to do is reach out and lead her.

Check my Podcast on Foreplay it will give you better understanding on how to have more women in your life

  • "Foreplay: Advanced Techniques"

  • "Foreplay: The Basics"
  • Monday, April 2, 2007

    How to escalate the interaction

    Lately, my friends and I have been talking a lot about "Sexual Escalation", so I want to talk about that too and hopefully help you guys have a better understanding of it.

    I feel like a lot of people understand sexual escalation as literally, "being sexual by what you are saying, and by doing a lot of kino."

    Yes, it is very important what you say and, of course, how you say it. And yes, kino is important, but...

    What I am saying is that if you like a girl, you should be sexual with her 24/7 from the very first second.

    Here comes the key point that many men miss. You have to be in control of your sexuality, and you have to be in control of your sexual needs and desires.

    You are in control of your sexuality; sexuality is not in control of your life.
    You are in control of your emotions; you don't let your emotions control your life.

    That drives women crazy.

    So how do you escalate?

    You show her all the time that you are very sexual and a sensitive being, but for her to get a taste of it, she needs to earn it.

    Look at her in a seductive, sexual way. Be very comfortable with it, but don't even touch her.

    It is very important that you hold the tension and that you don't smile. If she smiles, you keep that seductive look and show her that you are seriously thinking of her in a sexual way.

    She will be like, “Why is he being so sexual but not doing anything about it?”

    You are not doing anything because you are in control of yourself, and she will want to break that because she is not used to seeing a man like that. That, right there, is going to make her get closer to you and be sexual with you back.

    If she is a very confident woman (the one that you want to be with, anyway) she will not try to break it. She will just feel comfortable around you so she can allow herself to be herself with you and to be sexual with you, too.

    You want to have sex. You love to have sex, but you understand that sex is something very beautiful, intimate, and sacred.

    For you, sex is not just sticking it inside of an object.

    You understand that sex is about two people getting together to enjoy the beauty of each other, and sex is the way they celebrate the joy of each other.

    So even though you want to have sex, you want to find someone that is worth your time, someone that is worthy of sharing that beauty with you.

    Someone that is up to your standards!

    So you are not going “all the way” because you are looking for the beauty inside of her. You might find it, you might not. No, until you find something that is special about her, you will not give her any more than a friendly hug. It goes back to the post, ”it is all about her”.

    I don't want to make things dramatic, you can find a lot of things that you like in a woman in a matter of seconds, but for you to go all the way, you need more than that.

    Then let's say you are very close to her physically. You have your arm around her because you found something special about her.

    Then you can get very close to her lips and tell her “I really want to kiss you right now, you are so sexy and beautiful but I need to get to know you better first and I am not sure if you are ready for it.” Of course, you do not kiss her.

    Again, that shows that you are in control of yourself and you will not let your emotions control your life, the same way you don't punch every person in the face that makes you angry.

    Here comes a part that is hard to explain. You tell her, “I am not sure if you are ready for it”, only if she is really not ready for it.

    What do I mean by this?

    You don't want her to just open her legs for you, she might be ready for that.
    You want her to cum for you like she has for no one else because that is what makes you feel like a man.

    Is there anything more rewarding in life than for a man to elicit powerful desires, passions and responsiveness from a woman? If there is, I don't know of it.

    For a woman to share her orgasm with you, she must trust you. If she does not trust you, she is not yet ready for your kiss.

    If she is ready and you tell her, then you will blow it.

    When I say I don't want her to just open her legs for me, I mean if she will not allow herself to have an orgasm, then how is that fun for me?

    Sex is a dance that takes two people. If only one is dancing, or one is only in it half ass, what is the fun in that?

    So this is how you escalate: by being in control of the interaction.

    I see men approach and approach women, and the first one that opens to them is the one they go for.

    This is not being in control.

    Women are so used to controlling the interaction and that is so boring to them. They hate that.

    If a woman gets horny, she knows that all she needs to do is put some sexy outfit on, go to the first bar she sees, and she will get what she wants because she knows men are not in control.

    So when you show her that you are in control, it will drive her crazy and it will make her want you more.

    The more she sees that you are in control, the more she will want you.

    You could be very sexual, and you could be doing a lot of kino, and talk a lot about sex. Or you could just be sexual by simply looking at her in “that” way. You are not drooling all over her like you have never seen a woman before.

    There is a lot to talk about, but I hope this will give you an idea of what it truly means to escalate, and if you do want to know more about how to escalate the interaction go get my Foreplay Podcasts right now:

  • "Foreplay: Advanced Techniques"

  • "Foreplay: The Basics"


    Thursday, March 22, 2007


    So I just want to say thank you so much to all the great responses that I got after I posted “It is all about her”.

    You guys really made me happy saying all the things you had to say you inspire me to keep going.

    So I just saw “300”

    I really like it since I saw it in the I-max I really got to experience it.

    What I want to say is that this film is all about real man.

    Men that know what they want, men that have real passion about life, man that believe in something and are ready to die for it, men that are not scared to go after what they want.

    I know that this film is an extreme example but that is what women are attractive to, man that has a “back bone”.

    If you want women to like you find your passion in life, find what is it that you want so badly that you are ready to die for it and go after it.

    When you do that women will run after you.

    Be the man that she has fantasy's about since she was a little girl.

    I know I am being extreme here but the idea is that if you get half of what I am trying to say it will be so powerful for you.

    Keep your cool when things get hot, don't be scared to be vulnerable in front of her, don't be scared to ask her for advice.

    Respect yourself and respect her, treat her as equal (not more like a lot of "nice guys" do and not less like a lot of "bad boys" do)

    So this film make me think about all this things so I wanted to share them with all of you.

    PS: Same feeling I get from “Sin City”

    Tuesday, March 13, 2007

    It is all about her.

    OK if you want to be successful with your interaction with women I will give you a very simple way of doing it.

    You should also keep it on the core of your interaction with women.

    Most guys are thinking what do I say to a woman so she can like me.

    This is the very first mistake man do.

    First of all the question is not “whether does she likes you” the question is “whether do you like her”

    When you talk to her look at her, search for the beauty inside of her, find what makes her different from all the rest of the women that you have ever met before.

    What makes her unique.

    I will go that far to even say forget that you even have a dick.

    Concentrate on her and when you need your dick I promise you it will be there.

    If you do that you will have so much more things to talk about because it will be so easy for you to connect with her and to find a common grown, to find a place where you connect with her.

    It is not just her face, her figure, or her voice.

    Look into her eyes and find what is behind them, find her spirit and let it be free.

    Allow her to be herself with you.

    Find the little baby girl that is trying to be a grown mature woman.

    If you can do that, women will not be able to say no to you even if they want to, and if they do say no is because they want to say yes so badly that is scaring them.

    For those women you can not do anything about they do not want to allow themselves to be free and that is something that they need to work on.

    I think what I am trying to say it is described best on this quoth form the film “Don Juan DeMarco”

    Women react to me the way that they do, Don Ottavio,
    because they sense that I search out the beauty that
    wells within them, until it overwhelms everything, and
    then they cannot avoid their desires to release that
    beauty and envelope me in it." Don Juan DeMarco

    When you do talk to her feel her softness and warmness and that will make her weightless.

    Smell her perfume and experience how does it make you feel how it brings tears to your eyes.

    I want you to fell how she smells like angels ought to smell.

    If you do all this instate of thinking about your dick and instate how can you get her to get in bed with you, you will be able to get a lot more quality women in your bed.

    I do believe women are Gods master peace, they are the Gods best creation, they are the best art peace in the world so I treat it and appreciate it in that way.

    It hurts me to see guys mistreat this art, but what hurts me even more is to see women mistreat themselves.

    When I was a kid my mom use to say “there is nothing more powerful them a woman that knows her price”.

    PS: let me brag a bit yesterday after AoA I went to celebrate our successful kick ass workshop with all the instructors we go to have diner and there comes the waitress of course all the instructors jump on her.
    But who got her phone number? Me.
    Why? I can tell you is not because I know the best technic, not at all.
    It is because I did everything I just describe.

    All I do is: I do what I just describe and I say “hi” and the rest just unfold right before my eyes.

    Monday, March 12, 2007

    The right discipline

    A man is born gentle and weak.
    At his death he is hard and stiff.
    Green Plants are tender and filled with sap.
    At their death they are withered and dry.
    Therefore the stiff and unbending is the discipline of death.
    The gentle and yielding is the discipline of life.

    Verse 76

    Soft and weak overcome hard and strong.

    Verse 36

    Lao Tzu

    Thursday, March 8, 2007

    March 8: the international day of the woman.

    Hi guys I just want to remind every men out there that today March 8 is the international day of the women.

    Since I love women so much this is easily my favored holiday of the year.

    I want to encourage every men to show their appreciation for all the women in their life a little more today.

    Call them and tell them how much you appreciate them and how happy you are to have them in your life.

    Start with your mom.

    Also all the new women you meet today give them a little more then usual.

    Love and light to all of you.

    From the Captain.

    Tuesday, February 27, 2007

    Do you love your mom?

    Here is a very touchy subject that I want to talk about.

    I hope that it comes out right.

    It is about your relationship with your mom.

    I have been thinking a lot about this the last few days and I was debating whether I should write about it or not.

    Basically I believe to be good with women you have to be able to have a good relationship with your mom.

    See I love my mom I even called her last night to tell her that I am going to write about this and she said that I should do it, so I am.

    See you have met, you do meet and you will meet a lot of women in your life, but there is one that is for life.

    If a woman blows you off you know you turn the corner and you can meet an other one.

    But if you mom blows you of in anyway it gets right trough you, it gets straight to your hard and it hurts.

    So if you read my post “Women want a man that can handle them” it is the same principal.

    You have to know how to “handle” your mom and I do believe she will be the hardest one to “handle”.

    What I mean by this is she is the hardest one because she knows you the best, and she loves you the most, she will love you more then any women you will ever meet.

    So you cannot play games with her, with her you have to be real, and that is how you should be with any woman.

    So when your mom is on your case or when she is mean to you, or when she is not being supportive, is because she wants to know that you love her.

    She cannot ask “do you love me” and you don't have to even say it with words if you don't want.

    Show it to her.

    It took me a long time to understand all this.

    See I left home when I was 17 and I came to USA (I am from Bulgaria). It is 8 years later I have seen very little of my mom.

    Every time a call her she will be almost always telling me that I wasn't doing something right, and it hurt me so much because I am all alone in USA and I try hard and I would of love to had her support.

    So we would fight a lot and it was a big mess.

    So know that I understand women and life so much better, my relationship with her now is great.

    Now I know that all she wanted is to know that I love her and that I miss her.

    I call her more often now, I banter with her, I shear my fun times, I tell her how I pick up women, I share with her my successes and my pain.

    She still try to tell me what to do and how to do it. I just let her speak, I let her finish, so she knows that I care what she thinks and then if I like it I will tell her so if not I will tell her so too and she loves me for it.

    Is great, it feels great too. It feels good to have her support.

    I will tell you what dough it is fucking hard to do all this, again because you cannot just leave her and go find an other mother.

    If you know how to interact with your mom you will know how to interact with any woman.

    So if you want to be better with women call your mom right now.

    Tell her how much she means to you, tell her how much you love her, tell her what you have been up to, ask her what she thinks about it.

    I guaranty you that if you can do this right you will be instantly a better man and women will be more attracted to you.

    PS: by the way this is photo is of my mom and I from like 8-9 years ago when I was 16.
    So cute

    Saturday, February 24, 2007

    Women want a man that can handle them

    When you talk to a women you want to approach her from a point of Fun and Curiosity.

    Women want a man that can handle them!

    I heard so many women tell me “He knows how to handle me” that is of course if they speak about a man that they like. Or my other favorite is “I love to be man handled”

    What is that women mean when they say that?

    For a women is wrong to ask for attention and I will not even mention sex.

    Also women are emotional creatures and are very in-tune with there feelings and emotions.

    They understand one other without words she does not need to tell her girlfriend that she is feeling bad today she knows it just by hearing her voice.

    You have to base your interaction with a woman base on this two main factors about women.

    What does a woman do when she wants your attention, or when she is feeling hurt, or when she is feeling lonely, or even when she is feeling fat?

    She will start a fight with you for no reason, she will start blaming you for something that you are doing, or everything that you are doing, and of course you can never win.

    Here comes the part where she wants you to know how to handle her.

    Very key point here.

    She hate herself for starting this fight, she knows it is pointless but what she hates even more is that you don't know that is pointless and that you try to look for reasons behind her action, then you start blaming her for going crazy, or even worst taking the responsibility of her going crazy.

    She just wanted your attention that is all.

    So give it to her don't fight with her.

    Be the man she wants you to be.

    All you need to do at this point look at her like she is your cute baby girl and don't take her seriously.

    At moments like that is especially important to keep your cool and to approach her from a place of curiosity and fun.

    Do not go into it, don't ignore her but don't take her seriously, have fun.

    Most likely she just wanted to have sex.

    So I would even go that far to say that the best way to deal with the situation is to throw her down and have sex with her right there and then.

    God she will love you so much for it.

    This is what she means by saying “He knows how to handle me”

    Because women can not handle themselves when it comes to this little stupid games that they play so the need you to be the man that can help them win the game.

    I love women, I adore them so I love this little games, I think they are very cute.

    Here is an other key point.

    Women play this games from the moment they meet you. From the very first second.

    Keep this in mind next time you think you got blown off by a girl, may be she was just playing a game with you, may be she was just testing you to see if you can step up.

    She wants to know if you can handle her from the very first second.

    When you leave the first time she plays a game with you, then obviously you don't know how to handle her. Further more is that if you cannot handle her in a simple little test that she did, she will be thinking "how the hell are you going to handle me in the bedroom?".

    PS: A little story to back my post:

    I met a girl, the attraction was on.

    We move to an other bar with few of my friends and her friend.

    When we were in this other bar she started flirting with my friend in a very obvious way.

    I loved seeing this because I knew exactly what she was doing, she was testing me.

    I looked at her and I was thinking to myself “oh god you are so cute”

    So after 5 or 10 min of that she realized that I don't give a fuck I was even happy for her that she is having fun. (felt little sorry for my friend because he tough he stole my girl, and she was just using him)

    What you think happened next?

    She came in and she throws herself at me and she tells me “you are so cool, you give me my space, and you let me be. You know how to handle me”

    That was in about 2 hours after I met her.

    You guess what happen next...

    Monday, February 19, 2007

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    OK guys here are the lyrics of a song that I believe best describe what a woman wants from a real man.

    “The only aphrodisiac I need is your voice

    Hearing you speak my name

    Beckoning me to answer

    Telling me you want me

    So I tell you that you're the answer to every question I've ever had about love

    Without words I use my tongue to tell the tale of us

    Tracing your shadowscape

    Kneeling before you my eyes feast upon your masculinity and

    All its divinity and I praise you

    Because all of that is for me

    I begin to indulge myself of your delicacies

    Digesting semi-sweet dark chocolate decadence as it melts

    Dripping down my chin

    Your taste is something that I ever couldn't re-create

    Needing every atom of your anatomy

    Necessity is placed upon me knowing you are the source of my serendipity

    Dipping in and out of me stroking more than my consciousness

    Subconsciously I find myself rewinding our love scenes

    In my daydreams

    Seeing that face you make when you're making me cum

    And it makes me want you right there and then

    Thinking of you in inappropriate places I get

    Tingling sensations in private locations where I wish to be caught between a rock and your hard place

    As wetness develops my legs begin to open and my spot turns to a backdraft and all I want you to do is extinguish it

    You know my body like the back of your hands

    And touch me and send me into ecstasy

    My thighs quiver in anticipation of deep penetration which gets me high

    Body rising



    Make-up melting

    Pulling my hair and

    Scratching my back

    I get a temporary case of tourettes because all I can say are four letter words in a four octave-range screaming your name


    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    I see your tongue pink between your lips and I want it between mine

    And I struggle

    As you lick torturing me

    I try to get away but

    Not really

    Running out of room begging for more up against the wall that has been scuffed by my stilletos


    You pry apart my thighs and tell me to be still

    And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me

    Demanding that I cum for you so I do as I'm told

    You've molded me so I'm good to no-one else but you

    You've conquered this once orgasmicless world and multiplied it

    Again and


    My face radiates with after-glow

    My pillow scented by you

    A fragrance which haunts me

    My room smells of the best sex


    Covered in body prints and finger prints and you above me

    Your name written indelibly upon my body in your genetic history

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual

    You fucking me makes me bilingual”

    I hope you notice how she wants him to lead hear and the more he leads her, the more he is control the more she wants it.
    “And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me

    Friday, February 16, 2007

    John Lash

    Wednesday, January 24, 2007

    Flowers and Women

    It is not what you do is how you do i t.

    I can give you the best “trick” in the world and if you don't do it right it will not work.

    What makes it work is the believe system that you have.

    Are you doing it out of desperation or simple because you love and enjoy everything about her, everything that makes her a women?

    I will give you a very small example, so you have something to think about.


    If you give her flowers because you want something in return it will not get you anywhere.
    She will know that you are giving her flowers not simple because you want to give it to her but because you want to get in her panties.
    Don't get me wrong she will take them and she might even enjoy them but all you did was to feed her ego.
    You even fuck it up for the next guy that will come around because now she is starting to believe that all guys are like that.

    The worst of all is that she will sense where you coming from right away.
    By the way for her is all emotional many women cannot put there finger on it and tell you why they like something or why they don't like it.
    If you ask a women why she likes him she will just have this dreamy look in her eyes and tell you “because he is cute”.

    But if you simple give her a flower for the simple reason that you want to celebrate her beauty as a woman and everything that makes her a women, if you want to compliment her femininity with a beautiful flower.
    Now that is a different story, she will love and cherish it.
    If you give it to her and ask for nothing back and you are doing it just because she looks so beautiful and that is your way of showing that her beauty makes you happy.

    You know women love to test you to see if you are for real or not.
    Sometime after you do something nice for her she might be not exactly nice to you just to see your reaction and if you have attitude is something like, but I just did this and that for you... then you are in big trouble.
    If you ignore her test and just be your cool self then you get a point in her book.
    She will think oh he is man enough to handle me and to stand his ground I guess he likes me for who I am.

    So no matter what “trick” you use think about how you are using it.
    Get in touch with your inner self and be aware of what you are doing, be aware of her.

    Now go out there now and make a women feel like a woman.

    Monday, January 22, 2007

    So What Are Dreams

    My dreams are worthless, my plans are dust, my goals are impossible.
    All are of no value unless they are followed by Action.
    I will act now.

    Dreams are the fuel you need to act.
    Dreams are the the road map to where you want to go.

    So dreams are the first step.
    So find out what you want out of life that is probably the hardest thing anyone have to do.
    I look for the answer of this question every day and I am sure I will never find it because I don't know what is good for me and what is bad for me.

    I have lived long enough to know that I have been wrong many times in my life and many times I have though something was good for me only to find out a year later that it was the worst thing for me.
    But there is this thing where you can turn bad things into good things and to keep going further and further ahead.

    What do I mean by turning bad things into good things is the power to see what was good about what happen and what was bad about what happen because everything that happens to you could be bad or good it is up to you how you want to see it.
    I choose to see it on the good site.

    For example I went into a real estate deal with a friend of mine 2 years ago and I lost a lot of money lost him as a friend and because of how busy I was cost me a lots of troubles with my girlfriend at the time.
    When I first got in it the deal I was so happy I thought I was a big shot now and that I will make a lot of money but few months later I saw that it was a very bad decisions.
    I could blame it on one million things and I could give you that much more excuses of why things went bad.

    But to me that was the easy way out, I had to look deep into what had happen and into myself and to learn from the experience, so I did and I can tell you that I learn more about myself, about my friend, about my girlfriend at the time, and about the real estate and about a lot more things then ever before.
    If I did make money I was going to be happy the money would have been spend by now but what I learn from it the knowledge stays with me for life and that is priceless and that is how you can turn bad things into good things.
    The reason I turn bed into good was because I have big dreams that are backed with a strong believe and I am not afraid of falling down I know it is part of the process.
    Only a worm is free from the worry of stumbling. I am not a worm.

    So I dream of being with the right women I don't try to describe her to myself but I could tell you what she feels like I don't know which women will make me happy but I dream of her I miss her every day even dough I haven't met her yet.
    You get what I am getting at.
    So no matter how many women break my hard or how many reject me I know that she is just around the corner but I know I have to go through all of them so I can learn from all the mistakes I make with them so I can be ready for her in away I am always ready for her and yet I will never be.
    I believe that I deserve to be with the right one and I will never settle down for nothing less.
    It is the same with all dreams.
    But you have to act now because all you have is here and now and yourself.


    Go ahead dream big, act now, and be happy

    Saturday, January 20, 2007

    Dream Big

    “Some men see things as they are and say, ‘Why?’
    I dream things that never were and say, ‘Why not?’”

    The mean of “Dream Big” is shown very well in this quote by Robert Kennedy.

    I dare to dream big and I dare you to dream big.

    Dreams are the first step to anything, you cannot get anywhere in life if you don't first want it.

    Ask yourself today this very simple question?

    “What do I Want?”

    Dream Big: Dream until your dream becomes so vivid that you can feel that you are already there and that in you are living in it, Dream until you realize that you already have it!

    You Have IT

    Things in life come only to those who already have, and those who do not have more shall be taken from them.

    Have the belief that you can accomplish your dream no matter what it is, even if it is the last thing you do in your life.

    Once you have such a strong belief then the unseen power of the universe will believe it too and it will join you in the dance of pure being.
    The power of the ever flowing universal energy will help you get to where you want to be, no matter how far that is from where you are now.
    Join me in the dance of pure being by believing in yourself and in your dreams.

    Something that I have to remind my self to remember is to laugh at myself whenever I lose my belief for a moment, because man is most comical when he takes himself too seriously.
    Laughter is one of nature's greatest gifts, no living creature can laugh except man. Trees may bleed, beast will cry in pain and hunger, yet only we have the gift of laughter and is ours to use whenever we choose.

    I invite you to commit to practicing and cultivating the habit of laughter.

    After all what can take place before the sun goes down which will not seem insignificant in the river of centuries?

    Last but not least remain as a new born child, for only then I can look up to others; and so long as I look up to another I will never grow too long for my cot.

    To enjoy success I must have happiness, and laughter!
    I am Happy.
    I am Successful.